Should I compromise on monogamy? Can I help her compromise? Or should we call the whole thing off? Background: I am a man in my early 30s, she is in her late 20s. We got together seven months ago, after being friends for over two years. It was an intense relationship from the start - she's a single ...

Some couples have a truly amazing, exotic sex life that’s enough to make most anyone jealous. But there’s more to a great sex life than endless sexual adventures and erotic games. It’s not even about those amazing mind-shattering orgasms that many have heard about, but few have ever experience...

According to Peggy Vaughan, the author of “The Monogamy Myth,” 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in their marriage. In other words, the person who stays monogamous within her marriage is among a growing minority. Twelve years into my marriage, I ...

According to Peggy Vaughan, the author of “The Monogamy Myth,” 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in their marriage. In other words, the person who stays monogamous within her marriage is among a growing minority. Twelve years into my marriage, I ...

While talking with a friend of mine at work (who is engaged to be married) he said that a long time ago he used to cheat on his girlfriends, having several at one time even. Then he said he had gotten it all out of his system, but he still has to work to be faithful to his fiance. This surprised me ...

Karen writes, "My fiance broke up with me in our 8th month of pregnancy. I was devastated! I had gestational diabetes so the pregnancy was scary enough. He had stopped making love to me and said that it was because he didn't want to hurt the baby. Yet, I found out he had emailed his ex-girlfriend (o...

"Over the past three years I have had sex or - as swingers have it - 'played' with several hundred female strangers. Sometimes they have been alone, sometimes in pairs. Sometimes there have been as many as seven or eight in one afternoon or evening."...

Boobalicious Scarlett Johansson is up on the cover of Cosmopolitan . She's been kinda busy lately, what with her engagement to human washboard Ryan Reynolds and everyone saying she was getting a little too cozy with her e-mails to presidential candidate Barack Obama. Scarjo has been known for her pr...

I was reading Leslie Lung’s book Freedom Of Choice when the answer to this question occurred to me. It was asked at the CANA forum sessions, and it was asked on this blog comments, word for word. So let’s answer this question by exploring the meaning of these three words used: “lov...

Could you have sex every single day for a year? Or even for 101 straight days? Before you say "Fuck yes!", remember that there's one catch—you have to do it with the person you're married to. (But you can't write a book about it, because two couples already did that and they've both come out a...