You have been trained into believing that anything that goes wrong in your abusive relationship is solely your fault. And you have been trained out of feeling joy.It is terribly hard to let go of something in which you have invested so much for so long. Because you think that your investment and you...

Abused women try desperately, excessively, hard to be lovable. We will let down boundaries, tolerate bad behaviours, ignore the writing on the wall, silence our intuition… You name it, we have all done it. And it doesn’t work. It may be less trouble in the short run, but it definitely compounds ...

“Why Men Love Bitches� This week I’ve been reading Sherry Argov’s ground-breaking book “Why Men Love Bitches�. Briefly, Argov divides women up into two categories: the nice girls and the bitches. The nice girls are the ones who fall over themselves to make a man happy. The bitches focus ...

It’s that time of year again, the time of year when, so the hype goes, everything in your life should be rosy. If your life is not rosy, it can be especially hard to have to admit the failure of a relationship in which you invested so much....