Master and I had to go out of town for work last week but we had the wonderful opportunity to stay in a condo in the mountains. It was beautiful condo - just perfect in every way. We had a night of kinky fun. Master was sick the rest of the trip - so sick I was wanting to bring him to the ER. He is ...

This week's compilation of sexy stories focuses on the our favorite toy, the penis. Whip out your fleshly or metaphorical cock and join in the fun with AlwaysArousedGirl right after the jump. If we had a cock we'd let it out to play every single day. In fact we'd probably walk around with it hanging...

It's hard to believe, but it's almost been a year since Eliot Spitzer was outed as Client No. 9 (or, if you prefer, the Love Gov)—which, of course, means the media is rehashing the story. Well, not just rehashing—it seems there's new news to be brought to the table! NY Daily News wants e...

So my submissive partner has recently discovered that she loves a good hard paddling. Problem is, in achieving the level of pain she wants, bruises are created. How can we avoid bruising while still maintaining a fairly severe pain scenario? Is it a function of the weight of the instrument? We're lo...

Not sure if I've mentioned it on the blog before, but I will be making an (increasingly rare) public appearance at the 2009 Leather Leadership Conference in Atlanta, GA , scheduled for the first weekend in April. I am looking forward to this event with great excitement for several reasons. First, I ...

There are few things we enjoy more than cleaning spunk from our fingers/stomachs/headboards, but one of them is reading this week's sex bloggers' descriptions of cumming. It's Jizzalicious. Nothing really comes close to feeling the way an orgasm feels. Okay, sneezing comes close for us, but we'd muc...

Fleshlights: we all think they're the bee's knees—but do we really know hot to use them properly? Probably not: so thank heavens for this couple, who've thoughtfully put together an instructional video. And not only have they created this helpful video, they've made it even more helpful by eli...

Being a girl who is both whimsical and sadistic, I happen to have a thing for BDSM toys with a softer side—or at least a sense of humor. In fact, my first ever paddle was one of those OUCH paddles, which I saw as both functional and amusing—the idea of an ass literally saying ouch after ...

Turn up those pert bottoms and let it hurt so good with AlwaysArousedGirl, right after the jump. Some of our favorite sex blog writers have been bringing on the pain recently. They're heating up their hands and their other bits with bottom-reddening spankings, rope bondage and super-intense sex. Got...

How can a shy girl explore her new interest in BDSM in San Francisco? I know, this should be ridiculously easy.... I am a shy, 25 year old female without a lot of dating/relationship experience. Over the past few years, I have become more and more aware that I am into BDSM and am ready to start expe...