Just when you think it's safe to get back in the water.. A little update... Storage is booked. I have paid a deposit and the unit is available from Saturday. I spoke to my A who agreed to help me move my stuff out. Due to circumstances out of my control it required him to make the booking for the tr...

I'm procrastinating. I should be packing my stuff.. carrying on with getting things in place to leave.. sorting out job, place to stay etc. So I'm not. I started and have just hit a block. I'm standing still. I am at a loss as to why tbh. It's like my head knows what I have to do but the rest of me ...

Yesterday I went to my 6th Al-Anon meeting. Now I am in pieces. This is hard for me to put out there but even if no-one reads it is out of my system and that can only be a good thing right? I have been in a relationship with this man (my A) for 2 years and 8 months. I moved in with him after a year....

Hello darlings. As my longtime readers and fans know, I have only contempt for the silly trinket known as The Oscar, which is why in a movie career that spanned the silents and the talkies, I have never been nominated for one. The Academy respected my contempt, and never nominated me, which is more ...

Hello darlings. On Survivor, the contestants have always proclaimed loftily that they are there to win a million dollars, as though greed were something of which to be proud. I am still waiting for at least one female contestant to show a little honesty, and admit that she is really there to lose we...

After my first Al-Anon meeting on Monday my recovering A decided our relationship wasn't right... again. He wants me to move out (it's his place). Nothing has changed since Monday and his feeling is still the same. Ok, I don't necessarily want that but I have to accept I cannot change this or him so...

Hello darlings. When the Oscar nominations were announced, one thing was clear; The Oscars are trying to lose viewers. Paul Blart: Mall Cop has already grossed more than all 5 Best Picture nominees combined. I understand that The Oscars are not supposed to be a popularity contest. That's why I never...