I am thinking about today's One Day at a Time - Today's Reminder: It is not the alcoholic who is my responsibility. My Job is to do something about my own faults, my own part in the mess our life has become. Can I admit that my own irrational behavior helped to create the mess? I am sure I will real...

Valentine's Day started out quite well...we went away for an overnight. But his drinking started around 2:00pm and it continued throughout the day. I didn't say anything, but felt sad that he can't seem to enjoy a day off or being with me without a beer. After dinner that night, I finally couldn't s...

I don't know how to handle this situation: My H has the habit of falling asleep with the remote control in bed. Every now and then he rolls over, it falls out and hits the floor with a loud BANG! This always wakes me up and scares the crap out of me, and I can't get back to sleep. It sounds like a g...