I know I've written about the cane. And how I like it. And people know this now. Which may (or may not) be a good thing. Because I ended up getting caned twice (!!) on Sunday. I had an appointment with Bob on Sunday morning. (Stop laughing. I can be places before noon. When I want, or need to.) I ha...

I can't believe I am outing myself like this... but... I am totally addicted to a reality show. I hate reality shows. I don't even watch American Idol. I never saw The Real World, even back when it was cool. Watching people humiliate themselves is just painful, and not what I consider entertainment....

First of all - kinky guys, some of you really really need to brush up on the communication skills. Seriously, one sentence emails is not the way to get a girl to go out and/or play with you. Especially if the girl took the time to write you a real email, with, like, more than two sentences. And thos...

Black hair, brown, blonde, redhead – even some combination, that’s not what really matters – not in the least, actually. Oh, yes, there are a few things – small enough to go over my knee, for example; over 21, under 40 or so; currently single and a little bit on the bi side; but those are al...

There is a scene in the movie "Men in Black" where K is watching his love on the computer via super-spy satellite. J walks up and comments, and asks about her. Trying to be flip (or maybe just break the tension?) he quips, "Well, you know what they say, it's better to have loved and lost..." K inter...

A couple of months ago, Matt and I went to a party in the bay area. My friend C was there, the friend who hosts these great "dinner parties" (that's what I call them when I explain what I did over the weekend - at work, to my mom, etc...) but no one really does much eating, even though there is a to...

A spanking party - in Burbank. Weekend before last. It was H's retirement party, and Matt and I had made plans to go. I was wearing these ultra cute new shoes. Totally adorable. I was rushing to catch up with Matt (who always walks faster than I do) when I twisted my ankle. I mean really twisted (an...

I just realized it has been two months since I've posted. I've really been meaning to, but work has been just crazy the last five weeks and there was the little problem of my re-injuring my almost healed wrist. (but it was totally worth it!!!) So what should we talk about first? I guess I should del...

Off from work today. I made Matt take me to a county fair yesterday and I think the combination of hay, animals (and assorted smells), fair food (stuff you would never eat in "real" life), dust, dirt, people (was EVERYONE there?!) sun and the thought of the "meat bunnies" (OH MY GOD, PEOPLE EAT BUNN...

(First of all, I'm not looking for sympathy. Posting this is just my way of analyzing it, and trying to put it behind me. Because I haven't been able to, and I'm still anxious...) I was in a car accident on Friday. I was minding my own business, driving on the freeway, thinking happy thoughts becaus...